About Us

Matthew Hussey has exploded onto the scene as one of the new leading talents behavioral change and success. As a ‘Life Strategist’ he has founded two coaching companies, which have worked with thousands of individuals across the globe to show them ways of making dramatic shifts in their lives. Matthew’s success has been built on finding out what people want in their lives, and showing them how to make it happen in the shortest time possible.

He began gaining recognition for his coaching in being able to transform his clients confidence in a quick space of time, being asked to coach high net worth individuals in London looking to transform their confidence in key areas like public speaking. One of his clients included a hedge fund manager who consequently offered him his offices in Berkeley Square, Mayfair. He began presenting weekly to audiences in London about how to build confidence and create strategies for success in their lives.

His work in the area of confidence led him to be asked to coach men in achieving greater results in their love lives, by teaching them key strategies for understanding how they could become more confident and attractive to the women. Before long he was being asked to present on DVD products for men looking to improve their results in their love lives, and was being quoted by newspapers and magazines for his success.

Matthew has now built a team of coaches under his brand ‘MH Coaching’. His events and retreats have received such attention through the results they produced, that he quickly gained mass media recognition. His work has been featured on GMTV, CNN, Channel 4, Five, and NBC’s ‘The Today Show’ for American audiences.

He was called in as an expert on a major new 4 part BBC series for 2010 (‘Undercover Princesses’) to transform the confidence of one of the shows leading subjects, and has recently been interviewed on the David Dickinson show for ITV. He has appeared on radio stations across the country, including BBC, Radio 5 Live, and Talk Radio Europe. In early 2010, his new DVD was reviewed by “OK!” magazine. His own success has soared as people from all over the world have provided testimony to the effectiveness of his methods.

Now a highly sought after public speaker and executive coach, Matthew has consulted companies including Accenture, Virgin, Morgan Stanley, Weil & Gotshal, and CB Richard Ellis, as well as over 5000 individuals and organisations ranging from directors of FTSE 100 Companies, top institutions including Oxford university, international investment funds, artists, and even royalty.

His seminars have recently taken him to New York where he ran a live event and an interview with Sirius radio, and will be taking him to Las Vegas later this year to speak about his methods at a large conference. A whole team of coaches now use his methods, and people travel from all over the world to enroll on his programmes.

It’s rare is that you find someone who truly understands both sides: men and women. Before he began coaching women, Matthew had coached over 2000 guys in dating and relationships. He admits that when he started coaching women, he didn’t know everything there was to know about them, but by that point he knew men, inside out.

He knew why they didn’t text back, why they couldn’t commit, why they never called back after that date, what they were really attracted to, and what they truly longed for. He’d heard every one of their stories and every little thing they’d never tell a woman to her face. Equipped with the most guarded of male secrets, problems and desires, which never normally see the light of day…

He set out to put together the new bible for women on dating and relationships…one which truly gave them the knowledge and insights they needed to make it work.

We aim not just to give women road tested advice on what they can do, but in depth insights into the male mind so that women get total clarity on what they’re dealing with. The result is an astonishingly revealing and completely unique mosaic of understanding. This is women’s chance to get all of the pieces of the puzzle shown together to form one true picture of how this whole thing really works – something that only Matthew is in a position to reveal with his unrivalled background of dealing with both sexes exclusively.

Matthew’s formula is simple: Find The Guy, Get The Guy, Keep The Guy. His coaching, events, and retreats for women have received such attention through the results they are getting that a whole team of coaches now use the get the guy method, and women from all over the world travel to us to create extraordinary love lives of their own.

Get The Guy was founded gettheguy.co.uk with the sole intention of solving the puzzle of women’s love lives and putting them back in the driving seat. We give women everything they need to truly understand men, whilst equipping them with the confidence necessary to get out there make it happen.

We are dedicated to helping people reach their goals in the shortest time possible, whilst making the journey exciting and compelling. The Get The Guy concept was born from a desire to transform the love lives of women who felt they were worth more than the results they were currently getting.

Our process is designed to take any women, no matter what her current success rate, and transform her love life into one that is full of options, excitement and ultimately fulfillment.

The team

The Get The Guy team is comprised of experts with unparalleled knowledge in the field, founded by the UK’s leading Life Strategist Matthew Hussey. Together we have trained thousands of women in the arts of attraction, dating and relationships.

Matthew Hussey’s background

My background is a unique one. I spent over two years exclusively coaching men how to become more attractive to women. I ended up coaching over 2,000 of them. Why did I defer? It was simply the women’s turn. Having spent so much time with men, I had come to learn everything about them. Passing that knowledge on to women began as a fascinating hobby, but soon became an area of mass appeal to women worldwide.

When I really looked into the current advice out there for women I was shocked. I became sick of the run-of-the-mill advice out there. Positive thinking and fluffy motivational aphorisms. Tired old clichés of “Just be yourself”. I thought, isn’t it better to learn exactly how to be your best self? The playful, energetic, passionate you that is buried deep down? I had learnt and developed ideas and techniques for people that no-one else was teaching, and I soon discovered that people were just as excited to hear them as I was to teach them.

Now, from the male perspective I give women the honest lowdown on what really attracts men, with all of the insights, tips and techniques gathered from hundreds of hours of interviews with men and women, seminars, dating groups and research.

My mission is simple: To put an end to the barrage of misleading, I’ll informed, and downright damaging advice that is out there for women. It’s time for women to strip away all of the conflicting notions they have, and simply learn what works, from a no nonsense male who has studied the patterns and seen what works and what doesn’t.

Our events and products are designed away the myths spawned from the generic, second-rate dating advice handed down to women over the last ten years. I get excited at the events when I see people come to huge realisations which go on to completely reshape their lives. I know that any woman who has the courage to apply what we teach will see a rapid transformation in her results.

And it’s not all about Mr. Right. We all know that we can’t predict when we’re going to find the person we really want. What we can do however, is create a love life where you have choice. A love life where you call the shots, instead of just waiting around for Mr. Right to hopefully, maybe, possibly come along one day. The bonus is that when you’re meeting new people, and you know exactly how to get the results you want, when Mr. Right comes along you’ll be ready for it.

If you stay ready you don’t have to get ready!

The get the guy method

Above all us, Get The Guy is a call to action, showing women the strategies they can employ right now to take control of their love lives, instead of sitting back and hoping that it all “sorts itself out eventually”.

The information we teach has not been created through assumption, but through countless seminars and workshops run exclusively for women, as well as research and interviews with women to give what are thoroughly tried and tested methods or attracting quality men.

Without prejudice or bias, we take women by the hand and walk them through the most problematic issues in their love lives.

Through our experience with women we have found that the problems women face can generally be categorized into one of three areas: Finding men, knowing how to attract them, and then knowing how make it work long term.

As such, our programmes naturally lends themselves to three compelling sections:

1. Find the Guy

2. Get the Guy

3. Keep the Guy

Section 1 – Find the guy

The goal of this section is to rid women of their limiting beliefs about why they ‘can’t’ find a quality man, and ultimately create a lifestyle full of choice with men.

We look at why women find it so difficult to meet ‘good men’. We break down why women never meet the quality guys they are looking for, using a set of questions that shocks women every time they hear them.

We explore different avenues for meeting new men, as well as powerful social networking techniques to rapidly increase the number of eligible male companions in their life.

This section also applies some simple self-analysis that shows women how to identify exactly what kind of relationship they want at this moment, so that they stop finding the ‘wrong’ guy once and for all.

Section 2 – Get the guy

‘Get the guy’ is what it says. Once women have found a man/men they are attracted to, they need to know how to get him.

At this point it comes down to two core skills in a women: The ability to act and the ability to attract.

Here myths are dispelled about why women can’t make the first move. They are shown how to become proactive in making the first move so that they never have to play victim again. When women go shopping for clothes they certainly don’t wait for the right dress to come to them. They browse the dress until they find one they like and then take it off the rack! We show women how to adopt the same approach in their love lives, so they don’t keep ending up with a dress that doesn’t fit or looks awful because they didn’t choose it in the first place!

Here women are also taught the keys to attraction. We cover techniques for everything, from how to get men to approach you in a bar to getting phone numbers, texting, arranging the next date, flirting on a first date, conversation, and creating sexual tension.

We also cover the specifics of dating, such as where to go and how to avoid the boring default dates that everyone else does.

Finally, we get to the core of one of the most fundamental philosophies of Get The Guy: why the old dating books that tell women to be “Hard-to-get” just don’t work are just plain wrong. The new attractive woman embodies a concept we call “High Value”. Here we explain how women can live by this concept from now on to radically change the way they are seen by men.

Section 3 – Keep the guy

It’s no secret that one of the biggest issues for women when it comes to men is commitment. On every seminar we have ever run, on every private coaching session ever conducted, there is a woman who asks why men are so terrible with commitment. It can be marriage, children, or just committing to a date. Whatever it is, women still haven’t cracked this nut.

Here women are taught about the male blueprint. Once understood, women will be able to tell the type of man they are with and what stage of his blueprint he in in, which will show her clearly how likely he is to commit. We also explain the male drivers and how they affect the way they see commitment.

Keep the guy is where we uncover the essential steps for keeping a man long-term. We show women how changing a mans associations with commitment can completely change the way he feels about it.

We also get into the male psyche to explain why men cheat and why relationships go stale.

The aim of this section is to show women how to get the men in their life not to “reluctantly settle down”, but to WANT a long term relationship themselves, and even have them trying to persuade you to go further down the road of commitment!