About Us

Matthew’s rise to success as a speaker and a coach has been meteoric. From beginning as a one to one coach working with people in coffee shops, he now runs programmes across the globe for people looking to take every area of their lives to the next level.

With packed out seminar rooms from London to New York, he is a rising star in the speaking world and is gaining international status as a life strategist – transforming the lives of individuals of all ages, from every walk of life.

Matthew has created two major coaching companies that cater to customers from all across the world. The first, www.matthewhussey.com started as Matthew’s very own passion project. This has been built into a world-renowned service for peak performance coaching where he now has the full backing of a whole team of experts. His creations include specialist programmes on confidence, impact, and full life transformation retreats held in 5 star locations globally. Here clients spend 6 days in luxury villas in exotic locations where they have their own private chef and are coached by Matthew personally the entire time. Recent retreats have included Nice and Florida. His larger seminars take place anywhere from London to packed out rooms in New York’s Times Square.

Matthew soon become known for his extensive coaching and research into the world of human attraction, resulting in his latest venture, www.gettheguy.co.uk which exploded onto the scene in 2008, immediately gaining mass media attention in both the UK and the United States. The company recently released a DVD program which has already been reviewed by Okay Magazine, and Matthew’s notoriety in the area of human attraction landed him a spot as the resident dating expert on ITV’s This Morning as well as being a regular columnist for Now magazine.

Matthew has now been featured on major TV stations across the world. He’s provided advice on CNN, GMTV, The Today Show for America, NBC, and featured on a primetime BBC3 series ‘Undercover Princesses’. Matthew is also featuring in a new prime time series for Living TV ‘House of Grazia’ (released June 2011) and is the primary expert on a brand new prime time MTV series (which will be released globally to 60 nations in October 2011).

Under his MH brand he has been contracted to work with various prestigious individuals and large corporations. Private clients have included directors of major FTSE 500 companies including Morgan Stanley, hedge fund managers, and even royalty.

He has also partnered with major institutions in charities. In 2010 he was invited to lecture at Oxford University to the department of Neuroethics. Other talks include training for teachers at the highly regarded ‘Teach First’ annual conference, and a charity speech with members of the royal family at the Children In Crisis annual dinner.

He has become known for partnering with renowned global brands. In 2010 he worked side by side with makeup company Bare Escentuals on the launch of their new foundation product, and with Hugo Boss on the launch of their major 2010 fragrance, Boss Bottled Night. He has now been contracted to work with the large cologne chain ‘The Perfume Shop’ to increase their brand presence in 2011.

In mid 2010 he hosted the ‘Sales Consultant Of The Year Awards’ for Proctor and Gamble. He also worked with the entire women’s network of US Legal giant Weil-Gotshal in empowering them in a corporate environment, as well as the senior employees of Accenture in improving their confidence and impact in the workplace.

Through his database and his clients, Matthew now works with tens of thousands of people across the world every year. Clients fly from all over the world to visit his programs in London, as well as travelling to be part of his immersive life-transformational retreats.

The team

The Get The Guy team is comprised of experts with unparalleled knowledge in the field, founded by the UK’s leading Life Strategist Matthew Hussey. Together we have trained thousands of women in the arts of attraction, dating and relationships.

Matthew Hussey’s background

My background is a unique one. I spent over two years exclusively coaching men how to become more attractive to women. I ended up coaching over 2,000 of them. Why did I defer? It was simply the women’s turn. Having spent so much time with men, I had come to learn everything about them. Passing that knowledge on to women began as a fascinating hobby, but soon became an area of mass appeal to women worldwide.

When I really looked into the current advice out there for women I was shocked. I became sick of the run-of-the-mill advice out there. Positive thinking and fluffy motivational aphorisms. Tired old clichés of “Just be yourself”. I thought, isn’t it better to learn exactly how to be your best self? The playful, energetic, passionate you that is buried deep down? I had learnt and developed ideas and techniques for people that no-one else was teaching, and I soon discovered that people were just as excited to hear them as I was to teach them.

Now, from the male perspective I give women the honest lowdown on what really attracts men, with all of the insights, tips and techniques gathered from hundreds of hours of interviews with men and women, seminars, dating groups and research.

My mission is simple: To put an end to the barrage of misleading, I’ll informed, and downright damaging advice that is out there for women. It’s time for women to strip away all of the conflicting notions they have, and simply learn what works, from a no nonsense male who has studied the patterns and seen what works and what doesn’t.

Our events and products are designed away the myths spawned from the generic, second-rate dating advice handed down to women over the last ten years. I get excited at the events when I see people come to huge realisations which go on to completely reshape their lives. I know that any woman who has the courage to apply what we teach will see a rapid transformation in her results.

And it’s not all about Mr. Right. We all know that we can’t predict when we’re going to find the person we really want. What we can do however, is create a love life where you have choice. A love life where you call the shots, instead of just waiting around for Mr. Right to hopefully, maybe, possibly come along one day. The bonus is that when you’re meeting new people, and you know exactly how to get the results you want, when Mr. Right comes along you’ll be ready for it.

If you stay ready you don’t have to get ready!

The get the guy method

Above all us, Get The Guy is a call to action, showing women the strategies they can employ right now to take control of their love lives, instead of sitting back and hoping that it all “sorts itself out eventually”.

The information we teach has not been created through assumption, but through countless seminars and workshops run exclusively for women, as well as research and interviews with women to give what are thoroughly tried and tested methods or attracting quality men.

Without prejudice or bias, we take women by the hand and walk them through the most problematic issues in their love lives.

Through our experience with women we have found that the problems women face can generally be categorized into one of three areas: Finding men, knowing how to attract them, and then knowing how make it work long term.

As such, our programmes naturally lends themselves to three compelling sections:

1. Find the Guy

2. Get the Guy

3. Keep the Guy

Section 1 – Find the guy

The goal of this section is to rid women of their limiting beliefs about why they ‘can’t’ find a quality man, and ultimately create a lifestyle full of choice with men.

We look at why women find it so difficult to meet ‘good men’. We break down why women never meet the quality guys they are looking for, using a set of questions that shocks women every time they hear them.

We explore different avenues for meeting new men, as well as powerful social networking techniques to rapidly increase the number of eligible male companions in their life.

This section also applies some simple self-analysis that shows women how to identify exactly what kind of relationship they want at this moment, so that they stop finding the ‘wrong’ guy once and for all.

Section 2 – Get the guy

‘Get the guy’ is what it says. Once women have found a man/men they are attracted to, they need to know how to get him.

At this point it comes down to two core skills in a women: The ability to act and the ability to attract.

Here myths are dispelled about why women can’t make the first move. They are shown how to become proactive in making the first move so that they never have to play victim again. When women go shopping for clothes they certainly don’t wait for the right dress to come to them. They browse the dress until they find one they like and then take it off the rack! We show women how to adopt the same approach in their love lives, so they don’t keep ending up with a dress that doesn’t fit or looks awful because they didn’t choose it in the first place!

Here women are also taught the keys to attraction. We cover techniques for everything, from how to get men to approach you in a bar to getting phone numbers, texting, arranging the next date, flirting on a first date, conversation, and creating sexual tension.

We also cover the specifics of dating, such as where to go and how to avoid the boring default dates that everyone else does.

Finally, we get to the core of one of the most fundamental philosophies of Get The Guy: why the old dating books that tell women to be “Hard-to-get” just don’t work are just plain wrong. The new attractive woman embodies a concept we call “High Value”. Here we explain how women can live by this concept from now on to radically change the way they are seen by men.

Section 3 – Keep the guy

It’s no secret that one of the biggest issues for women when it comes to men is commitment. On every seminar we have ever run, on every private coaching session ever conducted, there is a woman who asks why men are so terrible with commitment. It can be marriage, children, or just committing to a date. Whatever it is, women still haven’t cracked this nut.

Here women are taught about the male blueprint. Once understood, women will be able to tell the type of man they are with and what stage of his blueprint he in in, which will show her clearly how likely he is to commit. We also explain the male drivers and how they affect the way they see commitment.

Keep the guy is where we uncover the essential steps for keeping a man long-term. We show women how changing a mans associations with commitment can completely change the way he feels about it.

We also get into the male psyche to explain why men cheat and why relationships go stale.

The aim of this section is to show women how to get the men in their life not to “reluctantly settle down”, but to WANT a long term relationship themselves, and even have them trying to persuade you to go further down the road of commitment!