How To Attract Men Without Risking Rejection

The easiest way to attract men is to get rid of your “needy vibe” that comes across as desperation.

Unfortunately men can pick up on the signs, but the good news is there are many things you can do about it!

Where does desperation come from?

Desperation stems from feeling out of control in a situation, and is comes from the panic you feel when you put too much importance on finding a man.

The trick here is to make sure you value all the other areas of your life (for example your job, your family, your friends, your hobbies, etc) just as highly as you value having a man in your life.

Keeping an equal weighting on every area makes you a more interesting person and a better conversationalist.

It will make you feel more confident about yourself and more laid back in social situations which is attractive to any man!

When women feel desperate, they do this…!

Many women who come across to men as being desperate have a tendency to approach a man or walk into a relationship thinking 6 months ahead.

Unfortunately men can sense this expectation a mile away and it terrifies them!

When thinking how to attract men, don’t forget that they do not want to feel like your happiness lies in their hands or that you are living your life through them.

Take pro-active steps towards your own projects on a daily basis which will help you not to panic about the future and keep the feeling of being in control.

Signs of desperation

We’ve interviewed many men, including the head barmen at the former nightclub China Whites on what women do that makes them look desperate when they are out and why that is such a turn off.

You may already be aware of a number of these, but it doesn’t hurt to be reminded of them! Firstly, when you’re out with your friends do not laugh excessively at every joke men make, dance too sexily or get too drunk!

You don’t want to look like you are trying too hard to impress!

When you are talking to a man stay calm and don’t feel the need to talk too much.

There is no need to iron out the awkward silences, as there is nothing wrong with conversational pauses so let the lulls occur and give him time to think.

Also, take care not get caught talking about your past relationships (this is where staying sober can help)!

The quickest solution to finding a man really is to focus on handling the other areas of your life and having a lifestyle that you really enjoy. When you do this, you’ put yourself in control of your own happiness and will effortlessly attract great men into your life.

To your love life,
Matthew Hussey

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