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How To Attract Men Without Risking Rejection – Attracting Guys Isn’t That Hard

Knowing how to attract men can be summed up in three areas, which we will cover in this article. The easiest way to attract men is to get rid of your “needy vibe” that comes across as desperation.

Unfortunately men can pick up on the signs, but the good news is there are many things you can do about it which means that before you know it, you will have attractive men throwing themselves at you just by applying some simple tips.

How to attract men without the rejection part…

Learning how to be attractive to men doesn’t always involve rejection, women seem to believe that men will somehow reject them if they speak to them or attempt to ignite some attraction. But that couldn’t be further from the truth, men are more shocked that anything else – so use this to your advantage and start chatting to the guys you like, who knows you could find love in the strangest places.

Being desperate doesn’t attract men

Desperation stems from feeling out of control in a situation, and is comes from the panic you feel when you put too much importance on finding a man.

The trick to attracting men is to make sure you value all the other areas of your life (for example your job, your family, your friends, your hobbies, etc) just as highly as you value having a man in your life.

Keeping an equal weighting on every area makes you a more interesting person and a better conversationalist.

It will make you feel more confident about yourself and more laid back in social situations which is attractive to any man!

When women feel desperate, they do this…!

Many women who come across to men as being desperate have a tendency to approach a man or walk into a relationship thinking 6 months ahead.

Unfortunately men can sense this expectation a mile away and it terrifies them! What men want isn’t the same as women, so you need to understand their needs from an emotional standpoint.

When thinking about how to attract men, don’t forget that they do not want to feel like your happiness lies in their hands or that you are living your life through them.

Take pro-active steps towards your own projects on a daily basis which will help you not to panic about the future and keep the feeling of being in control.

Signs of desperation, that really doesn’t attract men

We’ve interviewed many men on what women do that makes them look desperate when they are out and why that is such a turn off.

You may already be aware of a number of these, but it doesn’t hurt to be reminded of them! Firstly, when you’re out with your friends do not laugh excessively at every joke men make, dance too sexily or get too drunk!

You don’t want to look like you are trying too hard to impress!

When you are talking to a man stay calm and don’t feel the need to talk too much.

There is no need to iron out the awkward silences, as there is nothing wrong with conversational pauses so let the lulls occur and give him time to think.

Also, take care not get caught talking about your past relationships (this is where staying sober can help)!

The quickest solution to finding a man really is to focus on handling the other areas of your life and having a lifestyle that you really enjoy. When you do this, you’ put yourself in control of your own happiness and will effortlessly attract great men into your life.

So there you have it, understanding how to attract men in any situation really comes down to not being so needy, so watch out for that.

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  1. jeremy cruz says:

    really helpful.

  2. Lucy says:

    Does sending a facebook message to a random guy you just met in person look really desperate? I decided to take the plunge, and he replied but I’m still worried I look ‘desperate’. How do I play it cool?

  3. Jessica says:

    I’d also like to add that I’m not only commenting on this, but on every article I’ve read and video that I’ve watched.

  4. Jessica says:

    I’ve been absolutely blessed to have been watching Rachael Ray when Matt was a guest on the show. I signed up for emails the same hour his segment finished airing. Though I never signed up for the thorough and elaborate step by step process, I’ve learned quite a bit about myself as well as how others and men perceive me. After leaving my husband of 6 years (not long but long enough), I had men asking me out one after the other. Six guys in a four week period wanted to date ME! ME, of all people. I declined five out of the six because I didn’t NEED a man, nor every date possible. The only one I didn’t decline is such a wonderful, caring, and handsome ;) man that values me. For once, I’ve found someone that brings as much to the table as I do. I was a very clingy, disgustingly desperate feeling woman in the beginning, but I’ve discovered that I AM VALUABLE just as I am. I’m a slightly heavy woman, not obese, but curvy, and I’m with the most fit, trim, gorgeous, kindhearted, and romantic man I’ve ever met. He’s nearly straight from a romance novel. If I hadn’t found you, Matt, I’m sure I would still be the same lonely and needy woman that I once was. Thank you for everything.

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  6. mrs eunice says:

    my name is Eunice am from canada.am here to share my testimony to the world on internet so that people who are in the same problem I was into before can fine solutions through the help of Dr alexzander who helped me save my marriage and brought back peace to my life, though he ask for money from me,i still want to thank him for saving my marriage and my life because what he did for me was far bigger than what i paid to him for the items he ask for to get for me, to enable him cast the spell successfully.his gods are so great and powerfull to help anyone that believe in his servant.i got to know this man through the help of a young lady called mrs loveth, who testify on how this great Dr alexzander brought back her husband within 48hrs.I was not sure at first when I read the testimony until he did mine for me,am so greatful to the Dr alexzander for saving what I thought was lost forever. email him and believe in him I promise you that all of your problem will be solved, just as he solved mine.email him with this address alexzanderhightemple@gmail.com and you will also share your testimony on the internet.

  7. George Miller says:

    My wife has accused me of a lot of things in our years of marriage some of those accusation were true and i admitted to doing them but am to much in love with her to give her an s.t.d. She was down to end our marriage cos she believed i gave an s.t.d. She had a good reason to believe that cos of late i haven’t been the best husband. Thank God that s@@t was clarified in the Trisha show that i was not responsible for the s.t.d. She was in love with me as i was in love with her. Yes i will admit to the fact that i f$$ked up so many times but we always got around our problem i don’t mean avoid it i mean we fixed our problem like real adults but my stepson always thought i was not good enough for his mother. We never really got along. I never hated him, but he just didn’t like me and i wasn’t gonna suck up to him.He just wanted me out of their life and our problem just made it possible for him to see that happen cos he also accused me of giving my wife, his mother s.t.d. I agreed to do the Trisha show thinking maybe it will help fix our marriage but it made it even worse. After the show she was more down to live me. She asked that i move out of the house filled for a divorce and all. I thought she will come to her sense and see that though she had s.t.d i still wanted to be with her. I thought if i should give her time he anger and bitterness will die but it didn’t even after a whole month after everything.She had the divorce delivered to me. I could not let her go just like that.I got desperate and i panicking so i used a spell to get her back i know most people don’t believe and you may call me crazy but it worked for me. I found a comment on the Internet about this spell caster Metodo Ell. The comment said he doesn’t do spell for those who are not meant to be together. I mean i believe with all my heart that she is the one thing i needed in my life and i also know she needs me too so i thought he could help me get her back.He agreed to help me cos he also said we are soul mate.All i needed for the spell were materials to get the spell done. I could not get them so i paid him to get them for me since he is the expect in this stuff.After three days, he sent me a substance with instructions on how to make the spell effective and i did as he directed but honestly it took seven days to work i guess good things don’t work like zap. As far as i can tell that s$$t worked cos all my marriage problem just fall off my shoulder AFTER THE SPELL WAS CAST.My wife didn’t go through with the divorce and stepson is cool with me now. If you want to get him to cast a spell for you contact him here with this email address metodoacamufortress@yahoo. com he could also do a direct spell maybe it meant cost a little more than mine i don’t know him only can tell you that.

  8. rosa says:

    The audio book in i tunes, “69 forms de seduicr a tu hombre” is good.

  9. mrs loveth says:

    My name is loveth anetor I live
    in California
    THE GREAT dr alexzanderhightemple BROUGHT
    MY HUSBAND BACK TO ME IN
    JUST A ONE DAY.
    i got married 4months ago. My
    husband and I have been
    living a very happy and lovely
    life. So as time went on, I
    began to notice this strange
    attitude that he was
    possessing. He was now going
    out with other girls, to the
    extent that he was no longer
    picking up my calls, and he
    was not even sleeping in my
    house anymore. I became
    confused and didn’t know what
    to do anymore. So i
    became worried and stranded,
    that brought so many
    thoughts into my mind, because I
    have never experienced
    a thing like this before in my life.
    So I decided to visit a spell
    caster, to see if he can help
    me out. So immediately I went
    to the internet, where I
    saw an amazing testimony of a
    spell caster who brought
    someone’s ex lover back,so I
    contacted him immediately
    and I explained to him all my
    problems and he told me
    that it will be very easy for him
    to solve, compare to the
    ones he has done before. And he
    also gave me some
    proof to be really sure of her
    work, and he assured me
    that my husband will come back
    to me immediately after
    he is through with the spell
    casting. And also he told me
    to put all my trust in him and I
    really obeyed him.
    So it was 8:00 am on the next
    morning, when I was about
    going to work, when i received
    my husband’s call, and he
    told me that he was coming back
    home, and he apologized
    to me, and told me that he is
    very sorry for the pain that
    he has cost me. And after some
    hours later, he really came
    back home, and that was how we
    continued our marriage
    with lots of love and happiness,
    and our love was now
    stronger than how it were
    before.
    And these great man also told
    me that once my heart
    desire has been granted unto me
    that i should go and
    testify of his work right here on
    the internet. Right now I
    am the happiest woman on earth
    today as I am writing
    this testimony, and I want to
    really thank
    dr alexzander for
    bringing back my
    husband, and for bringing joy and
    love to my family.so you
    all there having dificulties or the
    other don,t worry every
    thing will be fine
    So my greatest advice for you
    out there who your husband
    or your wife is acting strange or
    behaving the same way
    like this, or you have any
    problem with your relationship or
    anything related to do with spell
    casting, is for you to go
    and visit this great man anytime,
    and i assure you that
    she will be of help to you, and I
    am 100% sure that he
    will solve it out.once again
    contact him on these email
    now..and your problem we be all over because I really trust him as the best spell caster in the world.alexzanderhightemple@gmail.com

  10. ca says:

    As bizarre as using a spell to get close to the one you care about my sound to you all,its something you think of when you run out of option of what to do.And as a fact that i know, most of us are will to go to the extreme to get the person they care about close to them.Well in my case i fell in love with my neighbor wife.She was one hot woman with long legs nice ass and every thing a man dreams about a woman.Its was sad cos she was in a loveless marriage.Herself and her husband were like two strangers in the same house.The entire neighborhood notice that the never kiss or even hold hand or walk side by side with each other that kept everyone asking if there were really married.As at then i didn’t if i felt passion or lust or love all that was in my head was to make love to her all day.I couldn’t stop thinking about her.Yeah we starting seeing each other, going out on romantic dates, of course no one knew about us and soon it became a love affair.I knew it was hell wrong but she made me tremble just by thinking about her.Then i could link love passion lust as one.We never really talked much it was mostly passionate sex when we were together.I was sure i loved her that i could give my life for her.I just thought i should let her know i love her with my life so i dropped the “L” word.It was like i dropped an atomic bomb on her i could tell.She loved as much as i did but she was scared of love and her husband how she was gonna tell him i have been sleeping with our neighbor Hagee .I knew they were like stranger living in the same house so i just wanted to be with her for ever you know make are her and make her feel the burning desire i feel for her i wanted her to live her husband but she was not ready to it.It stayed that way for eighteen months i got so tried to asking as convincing her i got so desperate that i contact a spell caster MUTTON OSUN i discover online.There are lots of positive comment about him how he has helped a lot of desperate people like me.I he assured me that she was in love with me but was sacred he told me that doing the spell will not take her free will but fill her heart with overwhelming love for me.He said the spell bring this overwhelming love to the surface of her heart and then she will be willing to give anything up for our love.I needed some material for the spell which he asked me to get.I could get them but could not find any where to send them down to him.I had to send down the money to him to help me get them where he was.It 800 dollars maybe other people materials will be less expensive it all varies but my was not a waste of money cos the spell worked but it took 7 days to be effective and all that.In the she left her loveless husband and since then we have been together it been a year now.if you may want to contact him use this email address godsofosunx@rocketmail. com

  11. me says:

    This is the story of my life that i am still pondering upon even as i write this article, if to tell the world.I have been asking myself if i should let the world know about this or maybe i should just keep it to myself cos most people might think am crazy.All the same am telling my story.I live in Bordeaux, France with my husband and four kids and we have a happy family.It wasn’t always just like that.Before my husband, i have been married to five different men.Yeah five, all five marriages failed after six months not cos we had problems or the relationships was on the rock they just come and go without good reason.It was the worst time of my live.I had a feeling there was something about me that wasn’t just appealing in the site of all the men that claimed to love to death.The entire puzzle of my life just seem to fall into place when i met my present husband i fall hard in love with him like he also did.It was all in his eye that he loved me with all he’s got.Yeah we got married but just after the first six months as always he just wanted out as every other man that i was married to.I never really wanted to let go of any of my ex husband i was willing to fight for it marriage but they bluntly weren’t ready for that.But this, i just got tired of same old same old thing just wanted a steady marriage with the love of my life.I tried marriage counseling with him which is suppose to me the best way to resolving marital problem but he was like its been tattooed in his mind that he wanted out of our marriage.I Honestly don’t know how and when i contacted a spell caster to help me.His name was Mutton i think he was of great help cos i honest remember that i think he helped me save my marriage.I say i think cos its being one year and six months exactly since he cast a spell to make my husband stay till dead do us part and my husband is still with me now and we are happy and in love just like how we were for the first six months.I will be fully convinced if we get to celebrity our 50th year anniversary.I don’t want any body to see this article like it was meant to make you contact him.I am just sharing my experience on how Mutton helped me restore my marriage with spell casting and i should tell you he does not charge for his services all you are to do is to provide materials he will be needing for the spell casting.If you feel he can help you solve any of your problem contact him here godsofosunx@rocketmail. com this was what i used to contact him good luck.

  12. cornellia says:

    i want to thank Dr ALuta for bringing back my ex husband, we broke up for more than 4 month and he told me that he never want to see me in his life again. i love him so much to the extend that i could not do any thing again, i was confused and depress due to the love i had for him.i did everything i could do to have him come back to me but all went in vain. so i decided to contact a spell caster, i did not believe in spell casting i just want to try it may be it would work out for me. i contacted dr Aluta for help, he told me that he have to cast a love spell on him, i told him to it. after 5 days my called me and started to apologize for leaving me and also he told me that he still love me. i was very happy and i thank dr aluta for helping get back my ex husband back to my hands. his spell is the the greatest all over the world, it was the love spell he cast on my ex that make him come back to me. all you ladies who want back the ex husband back i want you to contact Dr Aluta at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct at traditionalspellhospital(@)gmail.com and get your problems solve

  13. Jenny Coyle says:

    Control is really the key here: control of yourself and your reactions to others may sound simple, but it’s very difficult to master. Having high self-esteem and confidence – without over-stepping into arrogance! – is a very attractive trait to any man.

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    4 – long straight bleached hair

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  16. mh says:

    question? what is your opinion on online dating?

  17. Fleur de Lis says:

    This is a great post. I have always noticed when I would go out with some of my friends how their behavior would change around men. I always tried to tell them to relax.I definitely agree about the not talking about your exes. Not only have I heard my friends do it, but I used to have this problem too. Great advice. Love the post. I am sharing this with all my girl friends.

  18. Jean Fleur says:

    Wonderful post! I think if I could have applied this wisdom from a younger age I would not have all the relationship problems I’ve been experiencing again and again. Thanks for helping me feel there is definitely a way to not feel desperate, now I have hope. Jean X

  19. Emily E. says:

    This is great! I know these in my head, but when I get around a guy I like everything flies out the window and I start acting desperate. Going to print this out and follow it with the guy i’m seeing now!!!

  20. Jenny Livesey says:

    I need to understand how I appear to guys and what I need to do to create attraction. Help! I can see how I would be in the category of appearing needy. Help!

  21. Adele says:

    What an eye-opener, i hate it when men act desperate with me and yet when I like I guy sometimes I can act so desperate around them and its so true that its caused by panic, from now on all panic is banished!

  22. Kelly says:

    I *never* thought I was the “desperate” type–but when I read this I realized how desperate I must look to guys! Ugh! I have some work to do for sure.

  23. Angela says:

    Loved this post! x