Our Christian Carter review: Christian Carter, bestselling author of the book “Catch Him and Keep Him” talks about one little mistake that so many women make on dates.
To quote Christian Carter in his own words: “Don’t make the guy feel that you are a pessimist. Leave your woes at home”.
This is something I talk about on my seminars when I stress the importance of not bringing your emotional baggage to the first date. What do I mean by emotional baggage? Quite simply, anything that instantly reveals a level of neediness or insecurity that is immediately going to turn a guy off. (more…)
How would you like to get a handle on your love life and re-think your make up look all in one evening? Well for one night only Matt and Bare Escentuals have teamed up to host an invite only event at Selfridges, this is the first of it’s kind and spaces are VERY limited.
Here’s what this exclusive and unique two part event will cover:
Dating men with Matthew Hussey
Understand what men REALLY want – inside the male mind
How to find your ideal guy… yes, he is out there!
Simple dating tips that will get you out of your current relationship rut and back out there (more…)
There will come a time in your relationship with the guy your sure is ‘The One’ when you want nothing more to take the next step, get engaged and continue the rest of your life with him by your side.
However tradition has it that you have to wait for your man to propose so it seems your destined to become one of those girlfriends that gaze at him meaningfully during your friends weddings, walk painfully slowly past jewellers and ask him what he would call his children.
Well it really doesn’t have to be like this! (more…)
I’ve been thinking about moving in with my current boyfriend of 15 months, we love each other very much and think that moving in seems like a good thing to do, will this make us happier or drive us apart?”
Matthew’s Answer
Hey thanks for writing to us,
Moving in together with someone you love after a substantial amount of time is often the natural next step, and a good test to see if the relationship is as strong as you think it is. (more…)
I’m in a relationship and have been for the past 5 months with a great guy, we used to have regular sex but now every time it comes down to it, I just end up giving him oral sex, what’s the matter with him?
Matthew’s answer
Unfortunately after a while sex can lose its spark and some men can get a little lazy, especially if they are still getting what they want without having to work for it. But if you had great sex before there is not reason why you cant have it again. Here is some tips for getting your sex life back on track; (more…)
Discover how to attract a guy at the gym without risking the social pressure or rejection that can happen sometimes. When most people go to the gym, they get into the standard routine of sticking in their headphones, getting in the zone and running on the treadmill – without even thinking of attracting the opposite sex. So it’s no wonder you’re not meeting anyone there.
So here’s what we will do, I’m going to give you 4 tips to attract men in the gym that you can use immediately to get the guy you want: (more…)
So you’ve found yourself in the dreaded friend zone with a guy you feel attracted to, this is a place where no one wants to be – man or woman. However you don’t need to worry because it doesn’t have to stay like this, but it definitely means something NEEDS to change!
When a guy starts seeing you as a friend, it simply means he isn’t seeing you in a sexual way, than he would otherwise see another woman. Here’s how to get into his mind and give him a reason to start liking you more than just a friend. (more…)
“I’m seeing a guy from work at the minute, but he won’t tell anyone about me. He ignores me at work and never invites me out when he’s around friends and I haven’t even been to his house yet, what is the problem?”
Matthew’s answer
Relationships at work are difficult to negotiate.
Men want to be taken seriously at work and it may be that the guy your seeing is keeping you secret as he doesn’t want his personal life to be the subject of speculation at his place of work. (more…)
Matthew was again invited back to talk over at the BBC, this time on BBC London Radio about why women just aren’t getting the guys they want. It seems women are falling into the same patterns and traps that have crippled their success with men and dating.
What you shouldn’t do is settle for less, not only does this prevent you from meeting guys that you ACTUALLY want, it pushes you into “fake relationship” that can only end one way. (more…)
In a lot of posts I’ve talked about how important it is for women (and men, for that matter) to have their own passions.
Here I want to explain why that is.
First things first though, what do I mean by a passion? Well, by passion I mean something more than just a simple like or dislike of films, books, or watching sports.
Liking something is not the same as having a PASSION for it.
A passion is almost like a higher calling. We might define a passion as: Any activity or pursuit that you feel so emotionally attached to it literally makes your life worth living. (more…)
Our Christian Carter review: Christian Carter, bestselling author of the book “Catch Him and Keep Him” talks about one little mistake that so many women make on dates.
How would you like to get a handle on your love life and re-think your make up look all in one evening? Well for one night only Matt and Bare Escentuals have teamed up to host an invite only event at Selfridges, this is the first of it’s kind and spaces are VERY limited.
There will come a time in your relationship with the guy your sure is ‘The One’ when you want nothing more to take the next step, get engaged and continue the rest of your life with him by your side.
Matthew was again invited back to talk over at the BBC, this time on 
In a lot of posts I’ve talked about how important it is for women (and men, for that matter) to have their own passions.
