What Does It Mean When A Guy Just Wants To Be Friends?
So you’ve found yourself in the dreaded friend zone with a guy you feel attracted to, this is a place where no one wants to be – man or woman. However you don’t need to worry because it doesn’t have to stay like this, but it definitely means something NEEDS to change!
When a guy starts seeing you as a friend, it simply means he isn’t seeing you in a sexual way, than he would otherwise see another woman. Here’s how to get into his mind and give him a reason to start liking you more than just a friend.
1. Stop acting like one of his “guy” friends
This is probably the most common reason for a guy not fancying you when you’re friends, if you’re similar to his mates then chances are he’s not going to feel that spark.
2. Stale mate!
You need to break out of your shell, what’s happening is he’s seeing you as a little boring – maybe even like a sister which is obviously a bad thing. So you need to show him that you’re not boring and you can let your hair down.
So over the upcoming weeks, start changing your old patterns of behaviour slightly here and there. He will notice this and providing you follow the advice above he will start seeing you in a different light.
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Hi Matt!
I love reading all these stories and listening to your video advices…so keep up the good work! ;))
This really cute guy obviously flirted with me the whole summer during our internship at the same firm. He wrote me messages during work, we went to lunch together, he even brought me homemade creme brulee once. At the end of our internship after the goodbye-party he takes me to my subway station, but nothing happens. I didn’t get the chance to ask him directly, because my subway was already there, so I wrote him a text if this was flirting between us. And his response was “for me it’s just something coy between friends”. ?!
The next time we saw each other was at the Christmas party (so we didn’t really have any contact for a couple of months), he was my +1 because somehow he didn’t get invited. So we spent the whole night together, laughing, dancing…even during dancing he only had eyes for me. So suddenly he pulls me closer, touches me on my hip and we dance really close. But, you can’t fool around at the Christmas party from work, so nothing happened. He takes me to my nightline station which was the total other direction than where he lives, waits with me for 25min for my nightline…and says “hmm…I don’t even know how I get home from here”…but I thought he better initiates something from himself…so I get into the nightline, he smiles at me and says “if I don’t call you tomorrow, I didn’t find my way home”. But he didn’t call…haha…
Now we only wrote a couple of messages, but I always started.
I don’t get it…we have so many things in common, we laugh a lot, we are both funny and entertaining people and I feel so comfortable around him…I just feel like I found my second half. How come he doesn’t see that? He already knows that I’m into him, is that some stupid guy-thing, so he doesn’t have to track me anymore…?! But even a friend would call and say “hi”, wouldn’t he? haha…I don’t get it…