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3 Rules To Get A Man To Commit And Fall in Love

If you want to get a man to commit, you need to follow a few rules so that you actually get results. Getting a man to commit is one of the all time big questions that every woman at some point in her life has wrestled with.

It is one of the most common asked questions that I have women ask me when I coach them and the golden rule is:

‘Think pleasure and pain!’

Let me explain what I mean by this.

Suppose you’ve been dating a guy for 4 weeks or so and he tells you he doesn’t want to be exclusive. Perhaps he just tells you he’s not ready to commit.

Let’s go through the specific rules of how to make him want to be in a relationship with you.

RULE No. 1 – Never ever give your man an ultimatum!

A response women often make is to give an ultimatum, in other words they’ll say to the guy that if he does not commit to her exclusively from now on, she is sorry but their relationship is over.

Now this looks like a decent approach, right? – WRONG

If you give a man an ultimatum, he will run a mile every time. By bearing down on him to make an ‘all or nothing’ decision, you will only make him associate pain and stress with commitment.

He will see it as having to resign himself to a relationship, and he’ll romanticize the freedom that he would get being single.

Rule No. 2  – Don’t give him all the benefits of a relationship before he’s committed to one

A guy has to earn is place in your life. What a lot of women make the mistake of doing is giving themselves completely to a guy before he has expressed any intention of committing.

Not only does this apply sexually, but also to how much time they give him. They let him call her up and come over whenever he’s around, they break plans for him, come and look after him when he’s ill, the list goes on….

If you give a guy all these things before you’re even dating he’ll think:

“Why do I need to commit when I can get all this attention and still be single?”

Rule No. 3 – Get him to associate massive pleasure to commitment!

Another mistake women make when men won’t commit is trying to be colder towards him. This is also the wrong response.

Although it’s right that you might want to back off a bit (or even date other men), you want to make sure that whatever time you do spend together is the most fun he could possibly have!

That way when you leave he’ll think: “I want to spend more time with this girl, we have such an amazing time together!”

You always need the guy to realize that every time he commits to you a little bit more, things get more fun, more exciting, more romantic, and more sexy. If you give him everything all at once right away, there’s nothing left for him to achieve by being in a relationship with you.

What you ideally want is for him to feel like the single life can never be as much fun than experiencing new things with you can be.

A guy needs to feel like he’s missing out by not committing to you.

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  1. Sweet Sue says:

    You just contradicted yourself right there. I don’t know about you but I associate sex and being loving and affectionate/romantic as a fun thing to do and is also showing him that you value him that much, but so what game do we have to play and what tricks do we have to do in order for the guy to realize that we are a gem and a prize to be won?! Tell me. It’s always the woman who has to do her homework I see and let the man decide. If you’re going to say don’t have sex till there is a commitment (i.e. marriage) then don’t contradict yourself and tell us oh but if you just show him a good time, then he’ll commit. I guess you mean have fun right and do everything but have sex or foreplay. Thanks for the tip. Hope that women can learn from this.

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  3. Confused says:

    Hi Matthew,
    I have an issue that I find a great guy and he likes me too in the beginning. But after the first date I can get really into a guy, and I don’t believe in playing games or rather I can’t control myself so I message the guy back the day after saying what a wonderful day I had and so on. When I really feel like messaging a guy I like I don’t hesitate. How should I control myself?
    It seems to scare of guys when I give them this sudden approach. I don’t get why that is so. How should I approach it next when I guy don’t respond to my message? Should I wait until I get an answer back or should I send something more?
    And how should I actually act after a date to get him to approach me?

    • Bravewoman says:

      Confused…I used to be just like you. I have found that not keeping a new guy’s number in your phone is very helpful. I write it down put it in my desk at work. So at night if he doesn’t call, we don’t talk. If he is interested he will call. My guy friends say the day after text from a girl about what a great time she had is the kiss of death.
      They know we want a call, some guys just want to make us squirm or are not interested. Either way let him wonder where you are…instead of you wondering where he is.

  4. twinkle says:

    I’m glad I found this website thru a youtube video. I really like the advice, it makes lots of sense. Thanks!

    I’d say one main thing is just live in the moment. When I was younger and didn’t want a rship, men would not leave me alone and were always trying to get me to commit to them, but i didn’t want to. I have to admit that’s possibly since I was very young and conventionally-beautiful, but also it was because I DIDN’T WANT A RSHIP, so I was always easygoing and not worrying. Whereas so many women (even when young) tend to obsess about rships and that turns men off because they’re so worrisome and neurotic.

    So now I’m finally interested in having rships and am dating a guy who there’s strong mutual attraction, and try to remind myself to be the cool worry-free gal I used to be. Hopefully Matthew’s advice will be helpful too–I’ve seen great reviews of his book and wanna get it soon!

  5. hope says:

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  8. Jason Ellis says:

    Usually, the best way to make a man commit to you is to not try too hard. Badgering him to be exclusive so soon might send him running in the opposite direction. Instead, lots of relationship experts opine that it is better to wait for things to be totally exclusive until both of you are ready for commitment. However, making a man feel like you are pushing him into marriage too soon can really terrify him.

    • Sweet Sue says:

      Yeah exactly, that was also the message that I somewhat got from the article. You can never force anyone to do anything really. It had a good start but as I kept reading on, it just had contradicions.

  9. lynn says:

    I have been dating my guy for nearly 5 years. I am so ready to Advance our relationship to something more. I want to be an open couple facing life challenges together and start our family as one. We both have 3 children. He states he has never been more ready in all of his life but he doesn’t know what it is but he is afraid. I’ve been ready many relationship books to help understand. From my understanding, it’s something in his subconscious. I am certain it’s because the past 6 months when we talk about it, it becomes an argument and we both start bashing or yelling. Unhealthy I know bit it’s so frustrating!!! I am not sure how to place positive ideas in his subconscious to help remove our past 6 months but I’m sure there is something I can do. Can anyone e help?? I love him but need him to get over this fear of uncertainty.
    Help! Thanks! Lynn

    • Sweet Sue says:

      Wow you must be an amazing woman for him not to commit to you. It’s weird, I mean he’s still with you so that’s definately something to think about. Looks as if your relationships is strong. Good luck!

  10. Jill says:

    Very good advice, too many times women overthink what needs to be done.

  11. Randy says:

    I’m a guy who randomly found it and seriously, this shit is completely true…

  12. Paula says:

    I broke rule number one! What can i do now? Is it posible to turn this around?

    • Janet says:

      @Paula

      Are you still in touch with him? or has there been no contact? Can you give more info to help you? I would like to offer advice but need more specifics.

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  15. uigs says:

    So what do you do if you break rule #2? I broke the part where I gave in sexually w/o a commitment and told the guy that I havn’t been accepting other dates once we had sex. Please don’t say how wrong this is, I realize I didn’t handle it well and who is perfect. All the dates were scheduled in advance, none were booty calls, he contacts me everyday but he isn’t acting really like a boyfriend and hasn’t asked for commitment. Now I feel like I should be still dating b/c I have seen him online at the site I met him on so I realized I really need to still be dating but I don’t know how to handle this without seeming like a flake myself.

  16. sarah says:

    I’m sharing this testimony because someone out there might have same problem,Am very happy today because i was having a sleepless night since the only man i have ever love in my life left me for another girl,trying to get him back i met this testimony of a Woman called Sandra and she said somebody called Dr abacha helped her to bring back her lover. i took a leaps of faith and contacted Dr abacha and he also brought back the only man i have ever love to me.I’m so happy sharing this testimony,contact Dr abacha in his email: abachasolutiontemple@gmail.com and believe me his going to make you happy once again okay

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  18. Shannin Lucas says:

    26yrs ago my first love & I BROKE up he was looking for me ever since and has found me we’ve reconnected since Christmas Day..He had expressed his undying love for me anf do far has kept his word about things he saif he would do..I am not the type to call or text I let him do that cuz I think hr should earn his way back into my life (am I wrong for doing it that way)?..he works two jobs so we do not text as much is that ok? And where he stays he mentioned not being able to get much sleep so I told him if he wants to rest or sleep he can come to my house (is that ok? He tells mr he loves me quite often (I say it back is that I mean it) we r intimate sexually when theres time, but more intimate spritually I like that (is this good) he has not hurt mr in anyway yet, he says hes not here for that so far so good..how r ee doing? In ur opinion?

  19. Adrain Walcult says:

    My name is Adrain walcolt I live in United States. I am happily married with two kids and a beautiful wife but something terrible happened to my family along the line, I lost my job and my wife packed out of my house because I was unable to take care of her and my kids at that particular time. I manage all through for four years until I cannot cope with the situation again, so I searched on the internet for any help about getting back my family and job, but I came across so many testimonies, so I decided to Try Dr. BACASIM of (omukorojatemple@gmail.com.) who attended to me and instructed me on things to do which I did with faith and within 12 hours, my office called and gave me back my work on that same day, my wife came back with my kids and apologized for her actions.

  20. Priscilla Elvis says:

    Thanks to everybody out there i want to use this opportunity to thank dr uduga for the great thing he has done in my life cos if not dr uduga i would have not be happy right now i and my boyfriend had a little misunderstanding all of a sudden it lead us to a breakup i tried to make him understand me he started insulting me and calling me all sort of names that i should live him alone if i don’t live him now he is going to call the security on me to me out i plead and plead to him but he was still say i should go away from him so after everything had happened i was having no option than to live, i went to met my sister in London when i got there my sister were so surprise to see me carrying a big with me, she shouted at me and ask were am i going i said am not going anywhere is just that i and my boyfriend had a little quarrel she said that is be cos you guys had a little misunderstanding that is why he drove you out of the house she said to that i should not worry about anything that dr uduga will take care of everything i should eat and relax my self so after that day she went to her friend called Maureen to collect the great man`s contact so when she came we called him and explain everything to him and said to me is that all i said yes great one he now said i should not worry my self or think of anything again that my problems are solve,that within 48hour your lover will be back in your arms i didn’t believe him cos i was scammed before but my sister told me to give a try so i let the great man work for me so it was early the morning the other day i meant a missed call on my phone on checking it could you believe what i saw it was my boyfriend`s number and he called me again so i picked the call and he started begging and asking me to come back home that i should forgive him my brothers, sisters and my friends out there help me to thank this great man dr uduga cos right now i am very very happy with my boyfriend we are now in a new apartment thank you very much dr uduga,dr udga you are wonderful and powerful i will let people no that you are real…….if his contact is needed you can contact him with via email:udugatempleofsolution@gmail.com or cell number +2348153592618

    My name is: Priscilla Elvis

    i live in UK

  21. Rita says:

    I am inlove with my friend and i told him how i feel abt him and he said that his not ready what do i do 2 show him that i really love him

    • Niya says:

      When a man says he’s not ready, take him for gis word. Woman make the mistake thinking we can change a man’s mind

    • anne says:

      a lady is not suppose to approach a guy but since you’ve done it there’s no big deal but please live him alone since he said he’s not ready

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  23. Ann says:

    Am so grateful to Dr Okoken for what he has done for me,At first i was thing he was a scam and also thinking if i was doing the right,But when i decided to contact him i told him my problem he laughed and told me that everything will be okay within 48hours,So i decided to give it a try in which i contacted him he told me that i should remove all taught from my mind and be happy,Really on the second day i just got a cal from someone.The person was weeping then i decided to ask who was i speaking to then he called his name Richard i was shocked i asked him what happened he said he is really sorry for what he has done to me for the past 3years for leaving me alone.That i should please forgive him that he will make it up with me.So then i said let him come over which he did as he was coming he got me a new car and also said i should have access to his account top prove to me that he will never leave me for anything now we are bought together and we are going to celebrate this Xmas in any country of my choice,Which we are preparing for.Now we are together and he cant do without me friends am so happy to Dr Okoken for bringing back happiness to my life.i swear with my life Dr Okoken his a man to trust you can contact him on his private mail dr.rivershebalist@gmail.com

  24. penny says:

    Hello i am penny ,I am out here to spreed this good news to the entire world on how i got my ex love back.I was going crazy when my love left me for another girl last month,But when i meet a friend that introduce me to DR AGBOGU the great messenger to the oracle that he serve,I narrated my problem to DR AGBOGU about how my ex love left me and also how i needed to get a job in a very big company.He only said to me that i have come to the right place were i will be getting my heart desire without any side effect.He told me what i need to do,After it was been done,In the next 2 days,My love called me on the phone and was saying sorry for living me before now and also in the next one week after my love called me to be pleading for forgiveness,I was called for interview in my desired company were i needed to work as the managing director..I am so happy and overwhelmed that i have to tell this to the entire world to contact DR AGBOGU at the following email address and get all your problem solve..No problem is too big for him to solve..Contact him direct on: agbogunmagichome @ gmail . com and get your problems solve like me..

  25. Natalia says:

    Hello Matt,
    The 3 rules really make sense, I can see why they should work. Actually, when I was in a relationship with my ex (who I dated for almost 2 years), I didn’t even know these rules existed, but I applied them because somehow that was the approach that made sense to me. However, it didn’t work and the romance faded away quickly… He wasn’t seeing another woman at all. Maybe the problem was his, not mine? I mean: maybe he was too immature to commit? Is that possible?
    I don’t want help getting my ex back, not at all. I’m just telling my story here because I want to understand it, so I don’t make the same mistake twice. Anyway, maybe this story can be useful for you somehow.

  26. Mahdis says:

    I am a 25 years old persian girl who moved to USA.I really want to date an American guy but I don’t know how to use these rules and steps.when I read your blogs and watch your videos I totally undrestand what you mean but I don’t know how to them when I’m seeing a guy.I have always had this problem that at the beggining I can attract guys so fast but after a short time I feel like they are not atteacted to me anymore.I have a hard time attracting guys(especially white guys) permanently.

  27. Paulina says:

    This guy told me that he want something serious so the months was going pass by then I told him that in my case I was a serious relationship.He told me that he didn’t expected me saying those things to him.He want me to met his family and he was to met my family as will.so I’m not sure if he going to push away from me :(

  28. lina says:

    i dont have much to say about my life because i was having allot of problems in my matrimonial home.right now am so happy that everything is OK by me because a truthful caster real save my soul am so happy.if you have any problems just try email him;oksolutemple@outlook.com

  29. Lucy says:

    My boyfriend never tells me after seeing him when he intends to see me again. Does that mean he is not committed to the relationship?

  30. lucy says:

    i am here to tell you a true life story of my life, i am a woman who was once married with 2kids and one day i was at home when i decover that there is unfaithfulness in my husband, so i decided to watch what he is up to and one day on my way to visit a friend of my, i found my husband and my best friend in a sitting room kissing and smooching their self and i got angry at once so i slap the face of my husband and i left when i got home, in the evening of it, my husband came with his mother and they both tell me that am a problem to them i was so confused thinking i have to recieve apologies from him but it was not the way i think so the next day he got up and tell me to my face that i should leave his house. i was so ashamed of him and i decided to do some thing real bad but did work so one day i saw a contact on the internet and i contacted the email address and a man told me all about my troubles and what i need to do and now am happy, and my husband came beging on his kneels actually the dr told me that a woman will confess and my mother in law confessed to me that she was responsible for all the troubles of my life and my husband now is happy with me. thank you very much sir the almighty will guard u and bless you for me. please women out there reach him via emial or call him via okijasolutiontemple@gmail.com his name is Dr Frank.

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  32. anna says:

    Pls help me. My boyfriend do every thing for me. I can’t walk but he is de one who help me with everything even to take my son at school. I have a year together I can visit his mother and he no my family. But de problem is I don’t no where he stay tht thing I f I starterd thing about it I cant sleep. He is de one who also pay for me housing and medical aid. And buy cloth for my boy and my son is on ritalin. He is de one who pay for it. And I don’t want to loose him. He meantion tht next is must finish de school. Am confuss I don’t understant him. Pls wht must I ask him sotht I can go where he live. He mention tht he stay with brother idont no him. I no his mother and sister only de family. Am stressed

  33. anna says:

    I don’t no he love me or not. He speed many time at my place and I don’t no where he stay. But he do everything for u. He say her ex live in de house. So he told me tht he has bond house. So he staying with his brother

  34. santo says:

    What a beautiful and wonderful testimony some
    time things you don’t believe can just happen. My
    name is santo cruiz, from uk am 26 years old i got
    married at the age of 25 i have only one child and i
    was living happily .After one year of my marriage
    my husband behavior became so strange and i don’t
    really understand what was going on, he packed out
    of the house to another woman i love him so much
    that i never dream’s of losing him, i try my possible
    best to make sure that my husband get back to me
    but all to no avail i cry and i cry seeking for help i
    discussed it with my best friend and she promise to
    help me he told me of a man called Dr baba, he is
    a very great man and a real man that can be trusted
    and there is nothing concerning love issues he
    cannot do that is why they call him Dr baba. I
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    everything that happen all he told me is that i
    should not worry that all my problems will be solved
    immediately. He told me what to do to get my
    husband back and i did, he said after 3days my
    husband will come back to me and start begging, it
    really happen i was very surprise and very, very
    happy our relationship was now very tight and we
    both live happily again. So my advice for you now is
    to contact this same email
    address:okutemple@hotmail.com, if you are in
    any kind of situation concerning love issues and any
    other things that give you problems. THANKS

  35. faith says:

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  36. Linda says:

    My boyfriend left me three months ago. The longer he’s gone, the more I see what a jerk I was. At first, I blamed him for leaving. I told him he was ‘wrong’. In fact, I slapped scripture on him, trying to guilt-induce him any way I could. My anger only pushed him further away. I can’t believe the way I acted. My boyfriend gave me chance after chance, and I ignored him.

    I contacted Dr. Dele from a testimony I saw on a blog and within a few minutes of mailing him, I realized that everything that have been testified about him are through, he was the one person whom I could completely trust. Within 48 hours, my boyfriend is back in my life. I can’t thank him enough so I decided to add my own testimony online for people who need help in restoring back their relationship. You can contact him on dr.delespiritualtemple@gmail.com

    Linda Maxwell from USA.

  37. A guy says:

    From a guy’s perspective, if he’s not interested in being exclusive after 4 weeks, he’s not likely to be at all. And for those girls whose man came running, it’s the exception, not the rule.

  38. Amber says:

    I want to say is that dr Sanu made my dreams come true. I was finally asked me out yesterday by the man I thought I lost completely, he said that he wanted me back in his life and that it feels right among so many other things after we both had seperated since july this year. I really loved my boyfriend and had a hard time without him in my life, I am very happy I ever found dr Sanu email online and asked him to help me bring back my boyfriend. I got my boyfriend back after dr Sanu helped me within only 2 days, dr Sanu you are amazing!!! I can’t even begin to tell the world how thankful I am to you!
    Dr Sanu email : dr.sanuspiritualtemple@gmail.com

  39. Priya says:

    After the “talk” don’t they normally dart the other way and never look towards you ever? Going through a completely opposite scenario at the moment – even after the “talk” we are still in contact, as a month progressed I begin seeing things that happened when we first met but randomly. I try not to look desperate by being the only one texting and calling but I don’t want to come off as being cold and rude? Like how much is too much? I don’t know.

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  41. vice says:

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  42. helen says:

    hi i have resd the above and it makes sense. but i think my case a little different i have a kid to a man 15years ago. and since then i had a few relationships and he had settled down and had more kids..even tho this was all happening he always came to see me and everytime i was in a relationship he called and i always ended it so i could be with him when he called. he always foned wen he was out a night at the pub. now he has split up with his gf and we have been togeather but he says he doesnt want to commit altho he is the first person i speak to in the morning and the last at night and when the fone is engaged he asks whos on the fone. he knows i love him i told him but he has never told me. i know he wants me i just dont know if he loves me or is committed to me in anyway. all messages would be grateful.

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  44. Antoinette says:

    Hey how can I make a guy run after me? Here’s the thing a guy is now courting me but its like he is switching our places its like im the one courting him, but im not, he switches his place and my place..

    Ps.
    Please help me im having a hard time dealing with this..

    • twinkle says:

      Antoinette, that post was a year ago and I hope you’re already over that guy. Anyway pls don’t ever chase a man. If a guy’s not interested, fine, u can meet a better man who will treasure u. Good luck

  45. caroline says:

    my guy broke up with me over a silly misunderstood text that had no real meaning in it. care alot for him and it’s his birthday in few days,should i still drop him off the present i have bought for him.

  46. Stef says:

    I wonder if there is anyway to “start over” with the same guy? There is a man who has been in my life for almost a year. When we first met, I didn’t think much of it and “gave him the goods” before we were even dating. He stuck around and we started going on date-type outings even though he had mentioned he wasn’t looking for a girlfriend. Four months after we met I was moving out of state. He made my last weekend amazing. Then all of a sudden I had to stay in the state last minute. After that we slept together once but then we stopped doing that. Now we communicate every day and see each other 2-3 times a month. He hasn’t gotten the goods in over six months yet he shows me in many ways he is into me (proximity, physical touch, shares information, helped me move and helps in other ways). Yet….here I am still single and find myself wondering how much longer I should stick around? Did I unknowingly put myself in the friend zone?

  47. Kandi says:

    I once tried giving my guy an ultimatum, it DID NOT work!

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  49. Sandra says:

    1. Oh..okay. Well, thank you. I really appreciate you telling me. I really like that you’re so honest.

    2. No sorry, I can’t tonight. I have a date. I have some free time next week though. How about Thursday?

    3. Talk with passion about all the amazing things going on in your life that he’s missing. Laugh about shared interests. Talk about that fun thing you did together the first or second date you went on. Then go home early – alone. If he’s not commiting to it – he ain’t hitting it.

    I don’t think it’s manipulation. It’s getting on with your life and your goal of a relationship and he can either catch up or he can fade away as you find someone more on your wavelength. It’s valuing yourself enough to make him work for it.

  50. Kamilla says:

    I generally appreciate your advices Matt. But Im sorry. Didnt like this one much. It seams too much like the old female concocting, working behind the scenes to ensnare a man tactics. “Trick him into behaving like a mature adult”. I dont think every man is alergic to the word “commitment”. And I dont want to convince and manipulate someone to be with me. If you are the kind of guy that wants to play around, then fine. But you are not for me. Im not into converting someone. I want someone that wants to show me that they want me. What happened with openness and honesty? “Im a woman that is looking for a relationship. If you see yourself having a relationship in the not so far away future (with any woman), we can try this and see what happens. If you dont feel it for me, thats fine but atleast we gave it a shot. Btw you seam like a great man and I find you intruiging.” Could it be so wrong?