“Matthew is a genius whose magic needs to be shared with the world.” - Eva Longoria

I Can’t Wait For You To See This…

Something BIG is coming.

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Boyhood: On Watching A Life Unfold

This is article #28 to be published on the Get The Guy blog from my brother Stephen. Steve helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships.

This week’s article is a beautifully reflective piece about the life and growing up. Avoiding hackneyed self-help cliches, Steve lays out 8 honest truths that we all need reminding of from time to time.

Enter Stephen

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She Calls Me Out On National TV, But Watch What Happens Next

Last year I found myself on camera for a TV show – on one of the biggest stages I’d ever been on – in front of a live studio audience…

This clip is going to ‘inoculate’ you for life and have you ready should anyone ever try to embarrass you in front of others.

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How To Know If You’re Ready To Move In Together

In this week’s episode of LOVELife, I take a question from Amber about moving in with her boyfriend. She’s torn with the decision and we discuss whether now is the “right” time, and how she can determine so in a risk-free way. Enjoy!

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The Secrets Of Charisma (+ Free Guide At The End)

This is article #27 to be published on the Get The Guy blog from my brother Stephen. Steve helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships.


(Photo: Sascha Kohlmann)

Enter Stephen

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My Brother is Spilling All My Secrets

I can’t believe my brother did this…

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Why You Should Be More Like Kanye West

Don’t you wish you cared a little less about what other people think?

I often say in my events and seminars that ’99% of people live their lives determined by the thoughts of strangers’, and for this week’s video I’ve done something a bit different…

I take you behind the curtain of mine and Jameson’s strategy for these weekly videos, I share a lesson on how to stand strong behind your opinions, and we give a practical takeaway to stop caring about what other people think immediately.

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Why You Shouldn’t Gossip

In this week’s episode of LOVELife, I cover the topic of gossip, 3 practical reasons why we shouldn’t gossip, and getting more of what we want by being a better person. Enjoy!

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Relationship Quiz: 9 Questions To Know If He’s Right For You

This is article #26 to be published on the Get The Guy blog from my brother Stephen. Steve helped co-write the Get The Guy book and is a wealth of knowledge on dating and relationships.

How do you tell if you’re compatible with someone? At Get The Guy we often give the advice “never, ever, ever, ever, ever settle”, but what does that really mean? How do you know what your standards are? And beyond that, if a guy has met them?

In this week’s article, Steve poses 9 probing questions to see if your guy is right for you. If you’re currently unsure about the guy you’re with, this can be used as an incredibly powerful reflective tool. Enjoy!


(Photo: Quinn Dombrowski)

Enter Stephen

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My #1 Tip For Every Date You Ever Go On

Do you get panicked before a date?

Do you fear you might run out of things to talk about?

Nervous but excited, hopeful but unsure, optimistic but queasy… Going on dates can be scary.

But what if you never had to have these feelings ever again?

Today I’m going to share with you my “long­-term” approach to always be ready, and to show up in a calm and easygoing state, ready to have fun.

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